When you are young, passion is so strong that it’s almost impossible to stop loving someone! But ever thought why this happens? Well, it’s all in the brain. First comes initial attraction, the spark. Then comes the wild dizzying infatuation of romance – a unique magic between two people who can’t stop thinking about each other. The brain uses its chemical arsenal to focus our attention on one person, forsaking all others - say research scientists.
The brain in its first phase of love is much like a brain on drugs, i.e. the cravings and pleasure unleashed are as strong as any drug. And certain regions in the brain are deactivated, such as within the ‘amygdala’, associated with fear. That’s why you can do many insane things, when in love.
All these ‘falling for’ episodes are actually the effects of conflicting reactions of the front brain and the middle brain. The front brain is believed to be the logical thinker, with reasoning and experience. So while the front brain is lecturing you about the flirtatious nature of the girl and telling you that she is the wrong person for a long time steady relationship, the middle brain is awed by her sexy thighs, deep cleavage and her come-hither stare.
And alas, when it comes to choosing mates, even smart neurons in the brain can make dumb choices. So if the owner of the brain is in 20s, all bets are off. But if the brain’s owner is in his 40s he might think twice about that cleavage baring temptress, and might listen to his front brain.
So who would you like to listen to – the middle or the front brain?
Post your experiences – how you feel when you are in love?
3 comments:
I think there are stages of love.
1. The initial "falling in love"
2. The contentment of the friendship + benefits of the intimacy
3. Pure loving companionship- even if the sex is no longer there
For each person, I think it's different, but similar to the above. We're never going to continue that 'googly eyed' type of love for our partner/spouse, but we can work at it and do things- take action- out of love.
Interesting article!
When in love...I feel like the happiest person on the earth. Everything is new, joyful and full of pleasure.
never ever fall in love.
hemant
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